Sunday, May 30, 2010

My Best Friend's Wedding

Two weeks ago Kenneth, Danny and I had the opportunity to head to Southern California for my best friend's wedding. My friend Emily, who I have known since junior high was married to Nick Anderson in the San Diego temple on Friday, May 14, 2010. The wedding was absolutely beautiful!!

Danny had his first flight going down to LA. He did pretty good. As soon as the plane started going down the runway he fell asleep. He slept the entire flight which was wonderful!

After we arrived around 2pm we decided to head to the beach! We put Danny's feet in the water and he was NOT happy about it! ;) I think it was the combination of cold water, wet sand, and the loud waves. He immediately started crying, and even when we would hold him, he would tense up and lift up his legs whenever the waves came in. We better get him more used to the ocean!

















Friday was the day of the wedding. Danny was hilarious while we were at the hotel - so naturally I included a picture. We headed to the temple and we were fortunate to have Emily's siblings watch Danny while we were in the sealing. It was a beautiful wedding. Afterward we took some pictures, headed to a luncheon (that was absolutely delicious!!) and then relaxed a little until the reception.


Cute, chubby and relaxed against the hotel door


Leah, Me & Allison (both Emily's sisters)


The entire temple had scaffolding on it for repairs. The bride & groom loved it though!


Danny playing in the grass


Danny's girlfriend - they first met before we went into the temple for the sealing, and she was ALL OVER HIM! She immediately started kissing him and holding his hand.


The beautiful bride!










Danny got a little tired while we were taking pictures...and a little hot.









They had the reception at a beautiful house that belonged to a friend of the Anderson family. They found out earlier this spring what colors they were having and planted all the plants in the front and backyard to match. It was absolutely gorgeous! It was a spectacular reception and Emily & Nick were so happy! Congrats you guys!!










Emily enjoying her wedding cake before they left

On Saturday Kenneth, Danny & I again spent a couple of hours at the beach. This time we hit Huntington Beach. The surf was beautiful and we were able to watch all the morning surfers at their best. Danny did much better at the beach this second time. The sand was dry and warm, and he didn't even get scared of the waves...in fact, he crawled towards them! Maybe he'll become a beach boy after all!


(Kenneth is hoping this will be him soon after we get to California)











We had a wonderful time in California and are excited to head out there for good! Congrats again Emily & Nick!

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Big News!

Sorry for the lack of posts lately. I have about a half dozen things to blog about, but we've been a little busy lately because...we're moving!! Kenneth got a job opportunity to work in Corona, CA working as a civilian for the Navy. We are very excited about this opportunity. We have felt for some time now that we should and would be moving out of Utah - at least for a little while.

Please be patient as we are working on packing, finishing house projects and figuring out what to do with our house when we move. Please check back for updates on:

1. My best friend's wedding
2. Climbing & Rattlesnakes
3. More details on our move
4. Pictures of our remodeled bathroom
5. Updates with Danny (including pictures & videos)

Thanks!!

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Holocaust Remembrance

I've been thinking a lot about WWII & the Holocaust lately. These have been my favorite topics to learn about since elementary school. I think I am so drawn to these horrific events because I want them to be burned into my soul. I don't ever want to forget.

I started thinking about the topics more lately after watching the following film:



This is a wonderfully tragic story about a young German boy who befriends a Jewish boy in a work camp (where the father's soldier works). The message in the story is unforgettable. I recommend it to everyone.

After watching this movie, I started watching various documentaries about the Holocaust. Some documentaries spoke about the rise of Hitler's power and how it came about because the German people were experiencing difficult times (economically and also regarding national pride after WWI). Hitler seemed to have "all the answers" (I seem to hear that a lot lately). The film went into details about how there were several in Germany who resisted in the beginning. As time went on though, Hitler was granted more power (or rather forced more power). The people's ability to speak openly about their opinions were prohibited. There was massive propaganda to force Hitler's ideals. There was incredible censorship on the radio and in the newspapers.

Another documentary I've watched recently was regarding the concentration camps. It always makes my heart wrench to see the photos and actual film of the people being dragged from their homes, families being separated once at the death camp, images of the gas chambers, crematoriums, massive pits where bodies were carelessly thrown, or where bodies were bulldozed. The images of the enormous piles of clothes, personal items, shoes, brushes/combs, etc. is a visualization of just a fraction of how many people were murdered. Over 6 millions persons were murdered...why? Simply because they were different. A man, whose father fled and was able to survive the horrible ordeals of this time said, "They disliked the unlike".

A third documentary discussed specifically the "scientific" aspect of the Holocaust. A large portion of the film was discussing the experiments that were conducted on mainly twins, but really, on just about anyone they wanted to test on. Josef Mengele is one of the most recognizable doctors who would conduct "experiments" to simulate battle-field wounds (create the wound on an innocent child and then leave the young man, or young girl with no pain medication, no dressings, nothing at all) and then see how long it took them to die. They also conducted experiments on twins. Typically they would experiment on one twin and use the other as a control. An example of the types of experiments they would do include injecting the first twin with a certain chemical/bacteria. Then they would kill both twins to compare organs to see what the chemical had done. (They would often do several "tests" before the twin would die.) Of course another major "scientific work" that was being conducted was sterilization of the Jews and Gypsies so that the Nazi party could simply sterilize those who were not Aryan, and who they did not want to reproduce. As a scientist, I am mortified at these "doctors" and the lack of ethics they had. They inflicted some of the worst cruelties on God's more precious children. It makes me absolutely sick.

This last Monday I had the opportunity to attend the "Anne Frank: A History for Today" exhibit at the Salt Lake City Public Library. The exhibit had several large screens detailing the timeline of WWII, the Holocaust and Anne Frank and her family. The exhibit also featured a film regarding Anne Frank and the Annex, and showed a model of the Annex as well. The exhibit was beautifully done and I am so happy I was able to see it. I have read the publication of Anne's diary many years ago, and do not remember much about it. I have made it a goal to reread it, and soon. It was amazing seeing the many pictures of Anne and her family. There was also a short clip in the film that shows the only film with Anne actually in it. It makes it all so real - seeing a little girl waving and smiling from her window. These atrocities were committed on real people. They were not un-human as Hitler led many to believe. It astounds me how far we can get as a human race. There is such a lack of respect for life.

I want to share a quote from Anne's diary. It says;

"'For in its innermost depths, childhood is lonelier than old age.' I read this saying in some book and I've always remembered it, and found it to be true. Is it true then that grownups have a more difficult time here than we do? No. I know it isn't. Older people have formed their opinions about everything and don't waver before they act. It's twice as hard for us young ones to hold our ground, and maintain our opinions, in a time when all ideals are being shattered and destroyed, when people are showing their worst side, and do not know whether to believe in truth and right and in God" - Anne Frank (July 15, 1944).

This quote struck me as appropriate for today. The world we live in has a profound lack of wholesome values and respect for others. Parent's no longer feel they have any responsibility to raise their children into responsible and caring adults. Children today learn their opinions all too often from tv, or a famous athlete, or the other 10 year old kid instead of learning from their parents the fundamental truths about life.

Another quote that was in the paper we all received says the following:

"Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it." - George Santayana

I agree wholeheartedly with this quote. This is one of my greatest fears. My cousin out in Hawaii said that a local school district was going to remove history from its coursework. I was appalled. If we do not learn from the past we WILL repeat it. I can already see many things in society that are happening which would not if people would have a firm remembrance of events that have happened throughout history.

It is my firm hope and prayer that we can all have the courage to remember the past. We must not bury the past out of shame, fear or sadness. We must remember the past always. We must remember what things have happened and how the events have changed humanity forever - or at least that they SHOULD change humanity forever. Let's work together so that the tragedies of the past do not repeat themselves.


How appropriate that music from Schindler's List started playing as I wrote this post...

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Danny's Favorite Chair

So we have this chair that hangs from a door frame that Danny loves to sit in and jump around. I finally got some decent video of him playing in his chair (Click on the video to take you to youtube where you can see it full screen and full resolution).

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

10 Months, Accidents, Projects & More

So, I haven't blogged in about 2 weeks, so here is a quick update of what's been going on:

- My sister Alisha stayed with us for about a week before flying out to Germany where her husband is serving in the British military. She had a lot of fun watching and playing with Danny (or "Puppy" as she calls him) before she left.

- As many of you know I usually can't stand my hair. It bugs me a lot...so, before Alisha left to Germany she helped me to "be brave" and to get it cut in a way I never would have chosen before. I got a bob and it is also dyed back a little darker (rather than the leftovers of the red I had). I absolutely LOVE it! It forces me to do my hair everyday (rather than just throw it in a ponytail/bun) but it still only takes like 5-10 minutes. I'm so happy Alisha helped me conquer my fear of going short!



- My brother Michael, his wife Kim and their new baby Jonathan just returned from 6 months in Las Vegas (where Michael was transferred for work). We are very excited to have them back and that Danny has a new little cousin to play with (i.e. eat his hand). Kenneth flew out to Las Vegas to help pack up their place and to drive back with Michael. It was a quick turn-around, but he had a great time, and we are happy everyone returned safely. Michael and his family were able to come over to our house the night after they returned so that Alisha could spend some time with Jonathan before she left.



- Next on the list...Kenneth is DONE with school!! He had his one and only final last Wednesday (he was only taking 2 classes, and only one had a final). His graduation is the 10th, but he is not going to it. He can't stand the long speeches and general waste of time. Anyway, I could not be prouder of him. He has worked so hard over the past few years and has done great with his school work. He already has a job lined up and we just have to wait until the official "graduation" until they will transfer him from part to full-time. Go Kenneth!

- On to home projects! As most of you know, we bought a house in Salt Lake City about 2 1/2 years ago and have been slowly updating different portions of it. We finally got around to tackling the hallway. Yes, our hallway is small, but it still required a lot of work! We had to mud and sand the main door-frame, pull out old "industrial-style" baseboards, replace with new baseboards and paint. It looks 1000x better and am so happy with it.





- Now for the most recent accident! Kenneth was attacked my the screen door yesterday (Tuesday) and a huge chunk of his skin was ripped off. When he showed me the damage, you could see part of his tendon! It was absolutely disgusting. A picture is below for those who wanted to see:



- Now my favorite subject: DANNY!! My little boy is TEN months today! I can't believe how fast the time is flying! He is absolutely adorable, and I couldn't love him more. Unfortunately the little guy is teething with his 3rd tooth (again on the bottom - none on top yet). He army crawls like mad, and will get on his knees, but hasn't quite figured out how to move on them yet. He can stand up when you give him something to hold onto, but I have only seem him pull himself up once without any help from us. He also babbles a lot more and makes the sound "dada" though I don't think he knows what that means yet. He loves books, DVDs (he likes to pull out ALL of the DVDs he can), and jumping in his little jumping-chair. He can feed himself finger-foods now and especially likes bananas and cheese. I love this little man!

Danny playing with his favorite DVD's

Danny eating fettucini with spinich-alfredo for his 10 month birthday







Danny's 3rd tooth coming in - it is on the left.

This is for you Mom. It got really cold here so I had to pull your afghan out!






(click to see the full screen version)